The purpose of "14 Reasons You’re Not Letting Yourself Heal" is to begin to dramatically disrupt and disarm the intense, self-perpetuating psychological, emotional, and spiritual anguish and turmoil of deep grief, Whether the battle has waged for days or decades... By introducing elements of a uniquely developed, game-changing, results-based, mindset and approach for real grief relief and grief recovery, ’14 Reasons’ educates, inspires, and equips the grief-stricken Survivor to commence to perceive, think about, and respond to deep grief in much more knowledgeable, empowered, proactive, and effective ways. While making the grieving process a far less destructive, toxic, grueling, and incapacitating factor in Survivors’ days…

The reality is as a human race, we tend to do a pretty lousy job preparing our youth, and ourselves, for the inevitable. Typically, we’ve spent the bulk of our lives, endeavoring to evade and ignore anything connected with the topics of loss and grief. Because subconsciously, it’s our gravest fear and most troubling inconvenient truth – that sooner or later, we, and our most cherished loved ones, will be unable to answer “present” to life’s proverbial morning roll call… And that avoidance leaves us tremendously ill-prepared, ill-informed, and ill-equipped to have even an inkling of how to best address the most intense, self-perpetuating psychological, emotional, and spiritual anguish and turmoil many will end up ever experiencing in their lives…

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So, a random day abruptly becomes godforsaken and horrid. A cherished loved one’s life has ended. The mental and emotional overwhelm engulfs you. A litany of things to be done and engaged family and friends however – keep you otherwise occupied. Soon enough the funeral is done, everyone’s back to their lives, and the stillness and darkness sets in. Setting the stage for an intrusive, imposing, and toxic state of agony, misery, isolation, hopelessness, and despair to solidify and reign indefinitely from there…

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As a result, there’s a besieged population of grief-stricken, unprepared, under-acknowledged, under-served Survivors out there, who believe themselves doomed to helplessly suffer in immense pain, anguish, overwhelm, and helplessness, perhaps permanently - largely alone. Beating themselves up for not figuring a way out of the misery… Coming to believe they are powerless to change things… Mortified at the very prospect of it getting out just how woeful and lost their lives have become…

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And unfortunately, those Survivors who do seek expert guidance and support – at best, are likely to find merely help in the form of commiserating, encouragement to redirect their focus to less stressful pursuits, and assurances like “you have every right to feel the way you do”. The reality is there’s little to no real healing in that. It only drives the issues and toxicity deeper within, to metastasize further. Creating a mix of psychological and emotional time bombs, forever at risk of triggered detonation.

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However, that is exactly where 14 Reasons You’re Not Letting Yourself Heal comes into the equation. Via the introduction of a uniquely empowering, fundamentally new mindset towards, and approach to, deep grief - and proven results-based solutions… It’s the promise of less debilitated, anguished, and isolated days – and not continuing to live engulfed in pain, darkness, anxiety, angst, and fear. It’s much less faulting and victimizing themselves. It’s learning true recovery and brighter days can happen via the right insight, secrets, tools, and techniques.

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’14 Reasons’ seamlessly navigates the complication and emotional entanglement, breaking it all down into bite-size, easy to grasp, and comprehend nuggets of wisdom – delivered in a non-threatening and empowering, yet straightforward, conversational, and comforting way.

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