Getting the right help makes all the difference...
Finally, A Long-Awaited Way Out
And you’ve been kicking yourself a bit – haven’t you? Perhaps more than a little frustrated that you’re not further along by now… Irritated that you, perhaps the one that's supposed to be the strong one, continue to find yourself feeling so decidedly helpless and stuck. With no sense whatsoever how to take the reigns in your life back from here...
Then again, chances are, up to this point - you’ve endeavored to figure it all out by yourself! But - why??!! In most every other instance in life, when a problem, difficulty, or concern outdistances our associated expertise, we seek out a capable specialist for expert guidance and support. Whether physical health, oral health, faith, marriage, tax, or automotive repair based… We don't think twice about securing the expertise of a doctor, dentist, minister, counselor, accountant, or mechanic - for the answers and direction needed to help us best comprehend related struggles and complexities, help us identify best alternatives and next steps, and continue providing needed intel, guidance, and support along the way, helping us get back on the optimal track.
When it comes to the overwhelm and excruciating pain of deep grief, however… For some reason, we avoid seeking knowledgeable direction and support like the plague? For dealing with typically the most devastating and debilitating event, and daunting resulting psychological and emotional repercussions that most of us face in our lifetimes... For one of the areas, typically due to societally learned outright avoidance of the topic - we are the absolute least knowledgeable about, prepared for, and equipped to deal with... For some reason, we most often unwittingly condemn ourselves to more agonizingly, deeply-rooted, and extensive suffering in all this - on our own.
Perhaps you feel self-conscious, or embarrassed even... But, how much sense does that really make? Exactly what applicable education, working experience insights, skill sets, and/or related tools and techniques have you amassed in your arsenal, over the years - for knowing how to best navigate, cope with, and overcome the devastating loss of a loved one, and the ensuing deep grief? (And for that matter, while we're on the topic... Just how many of our closest friends and family have truly amassed such knowledge and skills sets either?)
Just how many months, and years even, have you languished in this debilitated and helpless state? Or worse, perhaps how many decades have you languished? How many of your most important life goals and closest relationships have been severely frayed – or completely lost? Just how much time out of your life, you can never get back - has been lost to this point – with still no real idea whatsoever what you can do to once and for all commence to get things turned around? Just how many more of those very much finite and irreplaceable days… months… years, entrapped in this decimated and demoralized state - are you prepared to continue to remain?
After all this time… After all the painstaking darkness, emptiness, sorrow, anguish, and guilt... As of today, you have both a lifeline, and a life-changing path to brighter days. Including, if you're ready and open to it... A path to an understanding ear, a proverbial shoulder to lean on, and a wealth of grief-relief and recovery insight and knowhow - putting you on a very different track, going forward....
Right here, right now, you get to opt for the knowledge and empowerment to equip yourself to start turning some of your biggest struggles and immense anguish around. So, deep grief continues to control you no more... So, you begin to learn, and make, the changes in you needed to commence taking your life back... So, your lost loved one's spirit has reason to continue to worry about you no more... And with the excruciating pain and misery no longer in control, instead you have the power to feel the authentic love and immense sense of connection with your lost loved - anytime you choose...
The reality is considerably greater relief truly begins, and the overwhelming hopelessness and despair ceases - once you learn the necessary new insight and perspective, and commence taking the healthier, less toxic, and more loving steps that need to be taken. Doesn't that sound like a significantly more effective way to approach all this? And isn't it time you learned exactly how to begin to make that kind of change happen in your life?